During My Blog Estrangement, Final Segment, Yes Really
Part One is here, and Part Two is here.
I didn’t think much of the unscheduled stop, I felt like the agent was grasping at straws trying to keep us engaged. He had already shown us eight properties that fell under the, “What in the Hell were you thinking, dude?” category.
He didn’t have the listing information with him on this particular house and he managed to lowball the owner’s asking price which was still more than we planned on investing.
The home looked rather inconspicuous from the street. It was on a slopped double lot, and looked to be on the smallish side. It was deceptive in its quaintness. We were surprised to discover the house had cathedral ceilings with skylights in some rooms. The living areas were spacious, the floor plan flowed, most of the living space was on a single level,the master bath had been remodeled, and there was a sun room which I immediately declared as studio space…
The Mister and the agent were both surprised I had a new first choice. My new favorite gradually became the Mister’s favorite. Our favorite turned out to be a real problem… the misestimated asking price, was already beyond our budget. The Mister asked what I thought, and I told him I thought our agent was an asshole. Not intentionally, just thoughtlessly. The house was a unique property for the area, and had not attracted much interest. For the Mister and me it would be a good fit.
Refusing to jeopardize our financial stability,we made an insulting offer on our new favorite. We knew our limit, and agreed to walk away when necessary. We had three prospective properties and were willing to pursue the others. After our initial offer, I turned my attention to our second and third choices. The first choice seemed out of reach and I didn’t want to spend too much time dwelling on it.
After several days of negotiations, offers and counter offers, we were shocked when they accepted our last counter offer. Neither the Mister, the realtor, nor myself considered the prospect of a successful negotiation. We were playing the game on the off chance something would happen, not anticipating that it might.
We close on the property next month. Our house is officially on the market, Friday. We will move next month, even if our current hasn’t sold yet. I think this is really going to happen this time.
An Aside: I really intended to make this a two parter, but my FIL was having trouble with his remaining eye. The staff at the care facility thought he might have cancer in his good eye, because his vision has been so poor recently. We (Mister Hombre & me) didn’t think it was cancer, (and we have SOOOOO many medical credentials in this house), but we wanted word from a board certified physician, instead of Web MD. I wanted to be reasonably certain our plans were firm before making any announcements, hence the nail biter as I waited for the eye exam results
Ole One Eye is fine. His vision is diminishing, but the Doc says he suspects old age is responsible. New glasses; Good news. I shutter at the thought of the alternative. For him, not me.
Thanks for sticking with me!
March 13th, 2008 at 10:39 am
Oh, a happy house story! Hurray!
March 13th, 2008 at 11:26 am
For once, I was glad to be behind in my reading.
I’m SO happy for you. Boy, once you two make a decision, you act. Awesome.
Same thing happened with us - our realtor thought the offer we made was insultingly low, but they took it.
March 13th, 2008 at 11:38 am
This IS SO exciting!
March 13th, 2008 at 12:09 pm
Oh this is such happy news! Congratulations!
March 13th, 2008 at 3:36 pm
Oh boy oh boy oh boy! This is spectacular, awesome, wonderful, exciting. I can’t wait for the pics. There will pics right.
Congrats. And the studio with lots of light sounds perfect!
March 13th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
I KNEW it about the realtor!!!! I just KNEW it.
I’m also so happy (and suprised) that they accepted your “low” offer! Sticking to your guns worked this time…coolio.
I also want pics, and I’m so jealous you’re getting the studio space I lust for.
March 13th, 2008 at 6:39 pm
You are going to be a busy woman.
Congratulations! I am so happy for you. Have you told the rest of the family yet?
March 13th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
GIRL!!!!! congrats!
March 13th, 2008 at 11:36 pm
You know it’s true love when you designate studio space.
Yay! Blogger hugs and kisses!
March 14th, 2008 at 12:33 am
This is exciting news…indeed! How are Patches and Dirty Girl taking the news??? Dare I ask what the Mister’s family has said…or are you going to wait until you’ve moved to tell them:~)? Heck, the way things are going, you might want to think of moving and leaving no forwarding address…just kidding…I think.
March 14th, 2008 at 6:37 am
COngratulations! That is wonderful!!
March 14th, 2008 at 4:23 pm
I’m really happy for you that you’re getting a place you love!!
Will you email me and tell me where you’re moving? I really would like to hear all about it (if you want, that is).
I’m sending prayers for Ol’ One Eye. It’s tough getting older, I know.
March 15th, 2008 at 12:05 am
pics. I want pics.
March 15th, 2008 at 7:57 am
Daisy, thanks for visiting. I hope it maintains this momentum. I’m always a little nervous until the last papers are signed.
De, yeah, but It seems to take a while to make up
ourhis mind. Our realtor suggested we make the offer. I think he was buying time, hoping something else would come on the market.flutter, yeah, and good exciting too as opposed to the other variety.
Diane Mandy, thanks. Enjoying your break stateside?
Maggie, eventually there will be pics. I’m waiting until after the closing. I’m a little superstitious that way. The studio space has so much going for it.
rachel, realtors are kind of predictable, aren’t they? Thanks I’m glad they accepted too. We’ve been listen to a lot of news about the housing market lately and it’s scary. We were in agreement about not overextending ourselves.
meno, I’ve gotten a head start on the busy part. This time, it will be purposeful
You mean I have to tell the family? Most of the Mister’s family knows. I haven’t bothered to tell mine yet…it’s amore of a game with me. I will tell them before the moving truck leaves.
jen, thanks!
nancy dancehall, that’s how I assess all houses. Sure that’s nice, but is there a place for a studio?
Lynn, Patches and Dirty Girl know something is up but they aren’t sure what. They continue to offer supervisory assistance while I pack.
The Mister’s family is supportive of the move, they were told of the possibility the first time we tried to ready our house to sell. The One Eyes are happy for us and simultaneously concerned about how it will affect them. There is a brother here to cope with immediate problems as they arise.
I haven’t told my family yet. I want to mail them something clever, I just haven’t set anything up yet….It’s something of a tradition for me, I should tell you about the last time I moved.
Emily, thank you. I guess both of us will know much of packing by the end of April.
sari, thank you. I’ll be in touch, it just may take me a few days. Ole One is appreciative of all kind thoughts and prayers. Aging can be so cruel.
crazymumma, you shall have pics though….later.
March 21st, 2008 at 12:43 am
I’d love to hear about the last time you moved! You are so creative and clever, I should think that it would be no problem for you to come up with something. Of course if Little Buddha reads this blog, then the proverbial cat will be out of the bag.