A Tribute to Mundane Bitching Because It is a Luxury When Compared to Real Problems…
Have you ever had one of those days when things were out of synch? Not the, life is so terrible will an hour past when I don’t want to chew my own leg off to escape, but the casual, WTF, itchy ant bite between the toes annoyances that occur. Tuesday, I fell down the rabbit hole. The morning began in throes of sleepless dreams leaving me scratching my head and wondering whatever happened to the peacefulness that used to envelope the fluttery sleep of my youth. Then again, maybe it was just the pizza from the previous night. I staggered out of bed in search of coffee, and the Mister joined me conveniently AFTER the litter pan was scooped and the cats were fed.
Mister Hombre and I have agreed to improve our eating habits. Neither of us has the metabolism of a sixteen-year-old male pursing a bed buddy, and both of us have grown too fond of desserts, and then there is an issue with a certain favorite pair of pants. We need to reestablish our willpower. This change in consumption shouldn’t be difficult. We’ve already cut down on heavily processed and preserved foods. Most of the vegetables we eat are fresh, little comes from cardboard boxes, and we enjoy fish and pork. The hardest food to part with will be the bread dipped in olive oil. There is something about the formality of the agreement that increases the pressure. SInce we took the pinky swear, I’ve been bummed about the whole thing.
For breakfast, I irritably sauteed mushrooms, scrambled eggs and brewed fresh coffee (incidentally, this would have been a typical breakfast, pre-diet pact). The Mister crawled into the kitchen complaining of congestion and feeling run down and blah. Translation: the Mister will feel uninspired and inhabit the sofa for long periods of time.
After breakfast, he felt compelled to offer his sympathy about menstruation in general, stating he thought this must have been similar to the way I felt last week. I offered to punch him in the lower abdomen and pour a gallon of water down his throat so he too could share the joy. He said no thanks and retreated to the sofa. I took him a fresh cup of coffee as a peace offering.
Most of my day was spent in the kitchen. I don’t mind cooking, but when there are regulations involved it sucks the life right out of me, and the f-bombs roll. Rules are inhibiting and stifle my creativity. I prefer a freeform approach to food preparation. At least the eating restrictions don’t place limitations on coffee consumption, but it hardly compensates for the planning required. Lunch was simple, but you wouldn’t have known by the number of complaints that escaped my lips. I suppose I left the Mister with the impression I to slaughter the chicken myself, grow the lettuce, harvest the tomatoes, and light the grill with two sticks and a piece of twine.
The afternoon required more time in the kitchen, followed by a trip to get groceries. We returned home in time to cook again. Damn it! The Mister is most excellent when it comes to pitching in for dinner preparations, but he was still feeling a bit blah, so I left him on the sofa. The evening meal was nothing special but satisfying. (Grilled tuna and asparagus, for those of you who just need to know.) The absence of wine was rather disappointing.
Okay, it was more than disappointing, it was the source of most of my complaining. Granted, I can function without wine. My beverage palette isn’t big. I drink water, coffee, hot tea, wine, and martinis. This new eating regimen forbids all alcohol for two weeks. Fine, I can do this, but I don’t have to like it. Due to sleeplessness, I’ve stopped drinking coffee after six. That leaves water and tea. While they are healthy alternatives, they don’t excite my taste buds. (I suppose the fact that I only have chamomile in my cupboard at the present time could be part of the problem. So, all you tea drinkers, tell me your favs, mkay?)
After eating, I was still in a foul mood. To add insult to injury, the cat chose to lay next to the Mister on the sofa instead of with me in the studio, our internet service provider was M.I.A. and not answering phone calls, there was a baseball game playing on television at rock concert volume, there was an idiot stationed in a powerful white house position, and Phil Hartman was still dead. In my defense, I could have dealt with all these little inconveniences…if only there had been wine.
October 18th, 2007 at 1:14 pm
I just never count alcohol calories. You may come diet with me.
I have blogged away all my spare (read: non-kid) time and have not prepared food. But there’s plenty of wine.
See how that works?
October 18th, 2007 at 2:28 pm
Oh man, I am so with De.
October 18th, 2007 at 2:45 pm
It’s not easy to give up our favorite drug. I mean that most sincerely. What you are exhibiting are some of the signs of withdrawal. Irritability, depression, restlessness.
Ask me how i know.
“It’s the end of the day, i’ve been good all day. I deserve a treat. Tea just doesn’t cut it.”
I like a strong green tea with a bit of honey and soy milk. How’s that for weird?
October 18th, 2007 at 3:39 pm
Ah the diet blues. I too had to give up alcohol for my diet - or new eating lifestyle as I call it. For a month. I never actually did it. Because I’m a cheater. But I drink a lot a lot less now. And I do not eat after 7 pm anymore. That was tough but boy is the payoff there.
Tea - ooh I love tea. Actually loose-leaf Egyptian Chamomile is my favorite but since that doesn’t really help you here are some of my backups: gunpowder green tea, cranberry, maple (oh so flavorful). You know if you have one of those tea shops with the loose leaf teas to choose from its quite economical and fun to try lots of different teas. That can add variety to dietary restrictions. Ooh, and since I’ve given up soda, I discovered Nestle Zero (iced tea with no sugar and no calories) a very nice substitute.
October 18th, 2007 at 5:50 pm
Real problems? I got yer real problems in these parts. Can I ask why you are dieting?? You people who read the comments should know that Chica is T-I-N-Y tiny. She’s like a southern accent on a toothpick. Get yer drink on and enjoy it. Eat a loaf of bread, too!
October 19th, 2007 at 12:48 am
I’m thinking moderation might be the key to your dieting woes. That way you can still dip bread in olive oil (just not the whole loaf) and drink some wine, just not the whole bottle…at least not in one sitting. If you get up and sit down again, then you are entitled to another glass.
October 19th, 2007 at 11:38 am
“I offered to punch him in the lower abdomen and pour a gallon of water down his throat so he too could share the joy.”
Hahaha!! You just made me almost pee my pants. I heart you so flippin’ much for saying this to Hombre.
And, I should say, I commend you for trying to eat healthier. Now that Mr. ARM and me have regular schedules again, we are trying the same thing. BUT, one should NEVER remove bread and olive oil from their diet. Just sayin’.
October 19th, 2007 at 7:17 pm
De, I bow down to you, sister. Your way is so much better than the one I’m trying.
flutter, we’ll all split a bottle soon.
meno, I think you left out bitter. I wouldn’t call that tea preference weird, it makes more sense to me than adding so much sugar you go into a diabetic coma, which is the way local restaurants serve it.
Maggie, I’m only have to avoid the alcohol for 2 weeks, but I get to travel with the Mister next week, then I’ll be lucky if I make it for ten days. I told the him, I will not go to my favorite out of state watering hole and drink water with lemon. Not a question of cans but wills. The seven o’clock rule is easy to stick with when the Mister isn’t home. He sleeps later and eats later, so it wrecks the cycle. I’ll look for a loose leaf tea shop, when I travel next. The cranberry maple sounds excellent.
liv, you are too kind, but I have one word for you: thighs. I plan on returning to the regularly scheduled debauchery, after I prove to my metabolism I can be trusted to behave responsibly.
Lynn, not in one sitting? C’mon Lynn what’s the fun in that. I’m think there may be more salad, nuts, and olive oil in future. I don’t think its a bad thing, I enjoy all those foods.
armalicious, I think I offered him a little more perspective on pms than he wanted. He’s always been pretty compassionate about, lets me lay on the sofa with my head in his lap, well maybe until the next time. The bread and olive are only on hiatus. I vow, they shall return to the table.
October 19th, 2007 at 7:17 pm
I can speak from experience…irritability and dieting always exist in the same universe. It’s a law of biology which we must not tamper with and which we must learn to accept. Sigh…
October 19th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
I will give up most things. But not Wine. or Whine.
Life is too damn short.
October 20th, 2007 at 11:30 am
No wine? No bread and olive oil? Back away from the diet slowly. It is evil and wants to do you harm. Just sayin’.
October 21st, 2007 at 11:53 am
what is there to eat if not wine and bread.
October 21st, 2007 at 2:51 pm
Joan, the counter you have on your sidebar shows you’re progressing well. Are your telling me it isn’t worth the effort?
crazymumma, Life is too short, and I’m blaming it for my slip off the wagon. I was marinating a roast and it it called for red wine. I don’t believe in cooking with wine I wouldn’t drink so, I give it a good slug. ANd it was roast worthy.
nancy, this WILL be temporary.
jen, mostly a medley of mixed greens growing by the highway and lots of fish. At least it isn’t bologna on white
October 21st, 2007 at 4:36 pm
I just have to laugh as I read your blog. Stucco and I are eating bread and having a glass of red wine. We are not tiny people but we do know how to enjoy our food
We have been trying to eat healthier as well. Olive oil is very good for the heart, btw. (In moderation.)
October 22nd, 2007 at 9:25 pm
Schmoopie thanks for visiting. Olive Oil is the official oil of this household, and after next Tuesday it will resume its regular duty keeping the wine and the bread company
October 24th, 2007 at 2:30 am
I know how you feel 100%. You can hear all the “fill your soul with other things, not food” but you know what? Food is an amazing source of comfort. It does get easier, but it takes time. Let us know if the results are better than the limitations. I think you’ll find a happy medium - one that involves more wine and less whine. Hang in.
October 24th, 2007 at 9:10 pm
mama P, aside from the wine limitation (which is only a factor for the first two weeks) the guidelines are easy, and I’m seeing results. Planning meals is a real downer for me. If I were the only one doing the diet I could eat salads with grilled meat five days in a row, but my husband won’t buy into that kind of culinary boredom.